I’m not for it. I don’t think babysitter should get mad at kids. They should just call their attention and that’s it.
Babysitters should know their limitations. No matter how unruly the kids are, babysitters should be patient. The tantrums are all part of the turf. Babysitters should know that. The most they should do is to calm the kids. They can call their attention as well. But they have to explain why they’re doing it. It’s not just matter of saying, “Don’t do that!” or “That’s bad!” The babysitter should explain things.
If the kids can’t touch it, the babysitter should explain why. They shouldn’t just say, “No! You can’t do that!” They also can’t say, “Your mom said so!” Those are lame excuses.
Babysitters shouldn’t be quick to judge. They should know the difference between scolding and explaining. It’s a thin line but they should know it.
They Should Know How To Handle The Situation
Babysitters should be able to handle the situation. They should know what to do and say. If one of the kids is throwing a tantrum, she’s in control. The situation shouldn’t control them.
Control here means they’re calm and collected. They must know what to do in tough situations. If they know how to handle such situations, they won’t end up yelling. I think that no babysitter has the right to yell at the kids.
It’s a fact. There are kids that are really hard to handle. Some can be really mean. But my point here is this. Babysitters should know how to handle even the toughest kids. Such is the reason why babysitters should have in depth knowledge on children. It’s the only way they can handle tough situations.
They Should Be Able To Give Objective And Specific Feedback
I feel strongly that babysitters shouldn’t get mad at the kids. They have no right to. But they have all the right to tell the parents. And they should. They have to give proper feedback to the parents. This is also for their protection. The parents should be aware of the tantrums of their kids. If there are any outbursts, the babysitter should notify the parents right away. If the babysitter can document it, the better.
It’s clear. I feel strongly about babysitters getting mad at the kids. They have no right to do that. They must know how to handle kids in the first place. They should never reach the point of being angry. They must not show any signs of it to the kids.
As a concerned mom, I really want a babysitter that can handle even the rowdiest kids. I know that only professional babysitters can do that. These are the ones that know children. They’re trained to address the needs of children. They can handle the challenges of watching somebody else’s kid. These are the kind of babysitters our kids need and deserve.
Nowadays, it’s easy to find professional babysitters. I can go online and find one. I can even run a background check. That’s an added service provided by some sitter services online. To top it all, I can even gather reviews on the babysitter. All these services are valuable to my search. I can be sure that the babysitter can handle my kid. I really wouldn’t want someone that’ll get mad at my kid. No babysitter has the right to do that. And that’s just my take on it.